TGIF means nothing if you work on Saturday
This sucks.
I was all set to whine about maybe possibly going to work this weekend, and then I remembered.
She’s found my blog, if the anon commenter can be trusted. And she’s calling and emailing Mr. A. I feel invaded. Of course he’s putting on the sanctimonious claptrap, but he had to have pointed her way here. Now he’s angry; geez, wonder how I feel much?
I try to be as personal and honest as possible without actually giving out my address, but this is ridiculous. I’ve never had a stalker before. Not sure I’m prepared. Did I mention the “no data” phone calls to my unlisted number, always at the same time at night? To say nothing of checking up on Mr. A every 5 minutes when he has lil pill; I’d like to think Mr. A has learned his lesson about using his kid to pick up women, but I’m not holding my breath. I’m keeping close tabs on him for now.
Speaking of pill, he managed an hour and a half in daddy’s company tonight before asking to come home. He has also told me that he doesn’t want to spend the night with Daddy anymore. I really believe Mr. A is on his best behavior, but lil pill has never been able to deal on a long-term basis. Someday lil pill will grow up and go off to the Peace Corps, but for now it’s kind of nice to be so necessary to emotional health.
Y’all have a good weekend. I may or may not be working, and may or may not be outside the large part of the weekend. Also, I may or may not be moving to Alaska. I think it’s too cold for a stalker up there.
Mahala Says:
It’s been my experience that a lot of women seek out recently divorced-with-children men so they can create drama, compensating for the lack of any real attention they have in their own lives. I like to call this the “Jerry Springer Syndrome.”
*snort*
Posted on March 28th, 2008 at 8:36 am
racheepoo Says:
I think you’re on to something there. To say nothing of Mr. A sleeping with a woman 6 months after she had a baby, to prove to himself I guess that all women are not totally wrapped up in their children like *I* was.
Posted on March 28th, 2008 at 9:30 am
Jill M. Says:
And she’s got nothing better to do with her time than stalk her boyfriend’s soon-to-be ex-wife’s blog???? Uh, ok! He must be dating a high schooler.
Rise above, Rachael! (not that you’ll have to rise very far to get above that kind of immaturity…)
Jill
Posted on March 28th, 2008 at 6:21 pm
Jenny in VA Says:
I think Jill’s on to something. Of course, you must realize, Mr. A can go nowhere but down after being married to you. I was gonna say, What a loser. . ., but you wouldn’t know if I was talking about Mr. A or the girl. SO, I’ll just say they’re made for each other. It’s just a shame you have to associate with him at all.
Hugs and enjoy your weekend regardless.
Posted on March 28th, 2008 at 8:27 pm
Rachel Says:
Jill,
I know…this is so silly!
Jenny,
What a sweet compliment. I think Mr. A is finally done with the “other woman”, but we shall see.
Posted on March 28th, 2008 at 9:45 pm
Angie Says:
I feel for you Rachel. Drama is no fun unless its on the big screen
By the way there are stockers in Alaska. 
I hid with a friend at the store to get away from hers. Do you really want to BBQ at 34 degrees. (yes I did that today) 
Have a wonderful weekend.
Posted on March 29th, 2008 at 12:56 am
racheepoo Says:
Brrr!!! Yeah, I’ve heard AK had their fair share of child molestors, too. Probably not a place I’d pick up and move too, but I’m glad you love the snow
Posted on March 29th, 2008 at 3:18 pm